Get ready to indulge in another one of Blaxity’s steamy Swinger Stories — We Became Swingers After Getting Dumped.
This juice story is about a married couple who joined the Lifestyle together after both their ex’s dumped them for each other! They go through how they first learned about the Lifestyle and what swinging really means to them. What it’s about and what it’s not about. Enjoy…
SWINGER STORIES — WE BECAME SWINGERDS AFTER GETTING DUMPED
About 12 years ago, right before Christmas, they decided they wanted to be together. So, we got dumped. Now they’re married, and we’re married too. That day seemed like the worst day of our lives, but looking back on it, it was actually the best thing that could ever have happened to us. It’s never too late to start again.
We wanted to learn from the mistakes we had from our previous marriages. We vowed to talk about everything, have no secrets, lay everything out there along with our naked bodies. We started off to make the foundation of our relationships very strong. Two years later, we visited Cancun and went to Temptation. We weren’t in the Lifestyle, we didn’t know anything about it, but we met a European couple and well… things changed.
We found out about this open-minded community. We had never met swingers before, so we had a lot of questions. They were so nice; they spent a lot of time explaining all about the swinging lifestyle us. We went back to our hotel room and talked together about it ourselves. We then went back and had dinner. We had more questions, and after dinner, they invited us to play.
That was our first swinging experience. The first time we had sex was mind blown; the fantasy, the openness, was spectacular. My whole perspective on anything about sex changed and became amazing.
When we got home, we booked our next vacation at Desire, and then we spent the whole year learning about the Lifestyle rules. We did all our research and learned the rules and guidelines. No means no, and don’t take one from the team! We learned about how important it is to communicate our limits and boundaries.
We found ourselves. We found our tribe, our community, where we really fit in. We didn’t realize you could separate sex and love in a relationship. We are emotionally monogamous. We have great sex with other people together, but we do not connect to them emotionally. That’s not what the swinging lifestyle is all about. It’s about sex.
